Marriage and Sexual Happiness in Islam
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Publisher: Çağrı Publications
Author: Mahmud Mehdi Istanbuli
Cover Quality: Soft Cover
Page Quality: 2. Dough
Number of Pages: 485
Size: 13.5 x 19.5 CM
Weight: 330 gr
PREFACE
"Know that lust has been given to man for two benefits:
First benefit; It is to think about the pleasures of the hereafter and compare them with this pleasure. This very short pleasure in the world; If it lasted longer, it would be the greatest of bodily pleasures. The pains of the hereafter are also the most severe of the pains that cause suffering to the object. The tasting of pleasure and pain while in the world is a kind of encouragement and awakening and guides people to the path that leads to eternal bliss. Because, you can not miss something unknown by tasting it.
Second benefit; it is the continuation of human existence and generation.
These are the benefits of your lust. Also, there are a lot of signs that occur when lust is taken under control and not protected from transcendence. These disasters will ruin one's religion and the world.
Some commentators said that lust is meant by the verse "Our Lord, do not put the burden on us that we cannot afford".
This lust leads some confused to love. This is the pinnacle of ignorance and puts man in a position that is inferior to the animal. Because a person who is in love is not satisfied with the taste of sexual contact. Because it seems that I will be satisfied with that lust only in one place. Even when animals are satisfied with any spouse, he thinks that he will be happy only with a certain person and becomes a slave. With such lust, even the mind mocks. Because the mind was created so that it might be obeyed. Or not so that he becomes a servant of lust and becomes barren because of it!
Love is nothing but an exasperated form of lust. It is a disease of carefree and empty hearts. In order not to fall into love malady, it is necessary to avoid the looks and thoughts that are the beginning of this malady. If this is not done, love gets stronger and it becomes difficult to get rid of it. "
Abu Hâmid al-Gazzâlî "Ihyâu Ulûmi'd-dîn"
"Pleasure is desired not only by people but by all living beings. It is not possible to reproach it because it is pleasure. It can only be reproached if it causes greater and complete pleasures to escape. The difference between an intelligent and intelligent person and an ignorant and foolish person also manifests itself here. In this way, he suffers little and gets rid of great pain.
According to this rule, we can say that the pleasures of the hereafter are greater and the lasting pleasures of the world are less and limited. The troubles of the world and the hereafter are like that. The power to make this choice depends on faith. If faith dominates the heart, man prefers the higher of pleasure to the lower one. By bearing a little of the suffering, he gets rid of hard to endure and big pains. May God help us.
Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jawziyya "al-Fawaid"
CONTENTS
Preface to First Edition XVII
Preface to the Third Edition XXVIII
Preface to the Fourth Edition XXX
SECTION 1
Marriage is a word
Marriage Is A Blessing 1
Encouragement to Marry 2
Idealizing Sexual Feelings 5
Women Are The Best Of World Blessings 12
Competing in Bid'ah 15
CHAPTER 2
PREPARING FOR A MARRIAGE
Choosing a Salih Spouse 19
The Woman Who Marries an Adulterous Man Is Like Him
It Would Be Adulterous 28
Don't Be Fooled by Appearances 29
The Necessity of Looking after a Boy and a Girl to Marry 31
Medical Checkup Before Marriage 36
No Competition for Girls 38
Enduring Love and Successful Marriage 39
Avoiding Marriage with Young Girls 41
Parents Being Necessary at Marriage 44
CHAPTER 3
ISLAM'S VIEW OF LOVE
There Is Nothing Nice Like Marrying Lovers .. 47
Girl's Preferring Younger Husband to the Old 48
Loving Is Difficult 50
Taking Pity for Lovers and a Tool for Them 53
CHAPTER 4
FACILITATION AND PERFORMANCE OF MARRIAGE
Consent of Daughter Before Marriage 55
Barring Marriage 57
Father's Proposing His Daughter to a Righteous Person 59
Prohibition of Extremism in the City 63
The Legitimate Marriage 67
The City and Its Importance 70
Wedding Hymn and Prayer 71
CHAPTER 5
COUNTS TO BE GIVEN BEFORE MARRIAGE
Parents' Advice for Their Daughters 73
Father's Advice to Get Angry 73
Father-in-law's Advice to the Groom 75
Advice from the husband to his wife.-... 76
A Mother's Advice to Get Angry Before Victory 76
SECTION 6 WEDDINGS
Playing Songs And Def 79
Dress Up For Your Wife! Let It Dress Up For You 86
Plucking Hair On Eyebrows And Face, Wearing Wigs
Prohibition 92
Prohibition of Imitation 92
Prohibition of Wearing Gold Rings 93
God Is Beautiful, He Loves Beauty 94
Beautiful Scent Creates Love Between Spouses 97
CHAPTER 7
IN GERDEK AND HAPPINESS ROOM
Groom's Compliment to the Bride-in-Her 99
What should the groom say to the bride in the evening 103
Prayer Together Before Groom And Bride
105
Chatting with women 105
Husband During Religious Contact
Words to Say to the Definition 111
The Prohibition of Spreading the Secrets of Sex 111
The Husband Should Do In The Morning Of Serdek Night
Jobs 114
After My Honeymoon 115
How does a man approach his wife? 117
There is Merit even in the sexual contact of husband and wife 120
Having Sexual Contact with His Wife on Friday
Nobody's Reward 124
Contact With Woman Other Than Sexual Organ
The Haram of Being Found 128
Sexual Contact with Women During Menstrual Period
The Haram of Being Found 131
Our Private Places to Everyone Except Our Spouse
We must cover 136
It Is Good To Make It Between Two Contacts 136
It is Sunnah to make ghusl on Friday 138
The necessity of taking a bath at home 138
The Man Wearing Along with His Wife's Relatives
Necessary Literary Attitudes 139
Don't Let The Woman Cheat On Her Husband 140
CHAPTER 8
LOVE TECHNIQUE
How Should You Make Sex With Your Partner? 143
She Can Be Affected Even In Menstruation 157
It can also be made love during the ghusl ..... 157
The Love of the Prophet (pbuh) and the Care He Showed to His Wives 159
Man's Joking By Shortening Steps With His Wife 159
The Importance of Man Playing With His Wife 161
Even With Lust, A Kiss Will Not Break Ablution 165
Kissing Lustfully While Fasting And Your Husband & Wife
Hugging Each Other 166
Blood-husband's sexual contact while fasting in Ramadan
Finds 168
A Latent Wife, the Prophet (pbuh) 168
CHAPTER 9
WEDDING AND WEDDING DINNER
Providing a Wedding Meal is Mandatory 171
Invited to the Wedding Dinner, Going to the Invitation
Should have 171
Inviting Only the Rich To A Wedding Dinner
Haramdir 172
Only the Righteous Must Call This Dinner. 172 Rich People for Wedding Meals of Poor People,
They Must Contribute with Their Goods 173
Leaving Sinful Wedding Meals 173
Wedding Ceremonies Doing
Some Affiliated Jobs 175
Eating and Drinking Prohibition in Gold and Silver Containers 176
The Greeting in the Form of "Have Your Sons" is One of the Customs of Ignorance 177
CHAPTER 10
DO NOT BREAK WOMEN
Treating a Wife 179
What Should You Do If You Don't Like Your Wife? 180
It's Nice for Husband to Treat Wife Softly 183
Good Advice to Women 185
Sublimating Women 187
Obligations of Muslim Women 191
CHAPTER 11
GRADUATES AND VILLAINS
According to the Description of the Qur'an
Beauty 195
Descriptions of the Women of Heaven in the Hadiths 197
Saliha Kadin Skills 198
Malicious Women 202
Ideal Wife 205
Faithful Prophet (pbuh) 208
CHAPTER 12
RIGHTS AND DUTIES
Rights of Women to Her Husband 211
Man Can't Stay Away From His Wife for Long 214
Woman, Friend and Spouse 215
Frankness And Accuracy 216
Your Husband's Rights Over His Wife 218
A Vain Fasting Without Permission From Her Husband
Incontinent 221
Woman's Property Without Her Permission
Can't Spend 223
Sadaqah for a Woman's Poor Husband
Encouraging Giving 224
Woman's Demand for Divorce
Avoidance of Presence 224
Beautiful Eyed Huris Salih (Religious) Kocalan
Defenses 224
The Reward for Obedience to Husband 225
Advise No to Women .. 226
You Cannot Measure Your Wife's Rights With Money 230
Responsibilities of the husband and wife 234
Political and Military Purposes of Marriage 239
One of the Proofs of Prophethood 240
CHAPTER 13
MARRIAGE IS BENEFIT AND RESPONSIBILITY
Marital Life Only Without Sexual Benefits
Not Sign 243
From the Wedding Room to the Battlefield 246
The Education Islam Gives to Women Is A Strong
It is education 247
Women's Addiction to Science and Merits ... 248
Unused Leisure Is Dangerous 248
Qualifications of Executive Spouses 253
Man's Leadership 263
The Perverse Prophet (pbuh) 269
To the Simple Lives of the Prophet (pbuh) and the Companions
A Brief Look 271
The Necessity of Economics 272
Women Must Be Patient With Her Husband's Poverty 274
Spending for a Wife 279
Awake Who Stingy Against His Family 279
Working to Provide the Alimony of the Family
280
Stingy Husband 280
Encouragement to Reproduce Generation 282
Reading Azan in the Ear of a Born Child 285
Something Sweet for a Newborn Child's Palate
It Is Mustahab To Drive And Pray For Him 285
Slaughtering Aqiqa Sacrifice for a New Born Child and
Have Him Circumcised 285
God's Favorite Names 288
Word to be Suggested to the Child whose Language is Beginning to Spread
It Must Be "Lailaha Illallah" 288
Table Manners to be Taught to Children 290
The Prophet's (pbuh) Behavior to Children 290
Changing Ugly Names 291
Son Test 294
Girl Child 295
Islam Supporting Girls 297
It is Rewarding to Take Care of Girls 297
Girls Must Teach Science 297
The Prophets Would Have Requested a Righteous Son from Allah 300
CHAPTER 14
PRINCIPLES OF A SUPREME EDUCATION
Treat Your Children Well 303
We Should Start Praying At A Young Age With Children ....; 305
Attention To Those Who Will Undertake Education And Training Of Young People 306
Provision for Lying to Children 310
We Must Ensure Equality Among Children 310
It Is Necessary to Be Compassionate with Children 312
Parents' Reward for Patience with the Death of Their Children 317
Children Become Intercessors to Their Parents 319
Woman Alleviating the Calamity of Her Husband 319
Lay Your Kids In Separate Bed 320
Parents' Rights 321
CHAPTER 15
WOMEN MAY CAUSE FITNESS
Watch Out For Women 329
Watch Out For Guys 330
The Importance of the Problem of Spirituality 333
CHAPTER 16
FAMILY HOME AGAINST THE STORTS
One with Women and Men, or a Woman
The Danger of Men Being Alone 337
Married Women Be Careful! 340
Protecting Women And Preventing Endangerment 341
The Gaze is an Arrow of Devil's Arrows 343
Open and Clear Command 348
The woman is obliged to attend the call of her husband immediately ..... 350
CHAPTER 17
HAZARDS THAT Await FAMILY
Danger of Relatives and Friends 353
Women Should Avoid Showing Their Ornaments and Ornaments 354
The Resemblance of Men and Women 360
The Deviation of the Impulse to Stand Out (To Show Yourself) 364 The Prohibition of Resembling an Unbeliever 369
CHAPTER 18
IN THE SHADOW OF ALLAH AND
IN HIM
The Reward and Merits of Chastity 375
Don't Get Close to Adultery 379
Characteristics of Sexual Life in Heaven 387
O boys and girls, turn to God 388
The Kâtil The Name Is Flavor! 390
CHAPTER 19
BURNS HIS JEWELRY WITH JEWELRY FIRE
Jealousy, Praised And Embarrassed 391
How Violent is the Jealousy of Women 398
CHAPTER 20
BEFORE THE DISASTER COMES
401
CHAPTER 21
INCOMPATIBILITY WITH THE COUNTRY
A Woman Hates Her Husband and Her Spontaneousness 415
Spontancy of Husband 421
Applying a Referee 423
What Will Each Husband and Wife Say When Called For The Judgment of God 424
CHAPTER 22
ANSWERS TO SEXUAL QUESTIONS You Will Ask About Sexual Issues We Will Answer 430
CONCLUSION 477
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