ENGAGEMENT AND MARRIAGE
Ahmet Mahmut ÜNLÜ
(Cübbeli Ahmet Hoca)
ENGAGEMENT AND MARRIAGE
It is an Informational Book Telling How Marriage Engagement and Wedding Service Should Be in Islam.
►How Men Will See Women and Women See Men During Engagement
► Mistakes Made at Weddings
► Marriage with Two Witnesses Cannot Be Considered Secret
►Müt'a Marriage
► Limited Marriage for a Period of Time
► Granting the Right to Divorce to Women◄
►Multiple Marriages◄
► Replies Against Objections About Multiple Marriages
►Special Rewards Promised to Women With Sand◄
It has been sold by Lalegül Magazine and Arifan Publications.
Product features
NUMBER OF EDITIONS: 1. Printing
Language Turkish
PAGE NUMBER: 320
SKIN TYPE: Paperback
PAPER TYPE: Şamua
SIZE: 13.5 x 19.5 cm
PREFACE
Unlimited praises: "Today, all good things have been made lawful for you. And the believing women who are protected (from adultery and slavery) and the protected (honorable and free) women who have been given the book before you; (it is also lawful for you to marry them)! " (From Surah al-Maida: 5) is reserved for Allâh-u Ta'âlâ.
Salutes without end: "There are four things that are among the sunnahs of the past prophets; to dream, to scent,
Using miswak and getting married "(Tirmidhi, Nikah. l no: 1080, 3/391; Ahmed ibni Hanbal, al-Musnad,
No: 23628, 5/421), the Messenger of Allah (Sallam Aley-hi and Salam) and the Ahl-i Bayt, who is continuing with this deed, the Companions of the Quran and those who follow them until the Day of Judgment.
Let it be known that; Our religion attaches great importance to the establishment of marriage, prescribes pioneering sunnahs such as decorations, and determined some conditions, sunnahs and decency at the later stage of the marriage contract.
Of course, it is unthinkable that our wise religion, who has determined judgments on every issue, neglected this issue. If it were not for the decrees imposed by our supreme religion, what would be the difference between human unity and animal mating ?!
The feature that distinguishes man from other living things is that he knows that he has a Lord and obeys His decrees in every matter. Of course, the observance of the decree of our supreme Lord, who is free from profit and loss, will undoubtedly be for the benefit of only servants.
However, if the servant does not protect these limits, he will not be able to find peace in his family home, and he will never be comfortable in the life of the grave, during the break of judgment, and finally in the torment of Hell.
Therefore, it is undoubtedly its own interest for a Muslim servant to observe the matters written in this book on a subject that is considered to be the most important issue of human life such as engagement and marriage.
Otherwise, it will be inevitable that his engagement is against the sunnah, and his marriage is a devout structure built on rotten foundations and doomed to collapse towards Hell at any moment.
Human beings who are incapable of knowing their own profit and loss must obey the orders of Shari'ah-ı ğarran determined by their Lord, who is a Wise and Wise, and avoid their prohibitions.
Those who succeed in this will attain the happiness of the two worlds, and those who succeed will be disappointed in the two worlds.
May Allah make our sentence be able to preserve the hudud-u divinity in our every work, let each of us marry our marriage and marvel at our endings. Amine!
5 November 2011/9 Zilhicce 1432
CONTENTS
Preface 5
FIRST PART
LEGISLATION RELATED TO ENGAGEMENT 9
Hıtbe (Engagement) 13
Insignia Is Not Legal 14
No Specific Duration Determination is Required for Engagement 14
15 that the Consultant Suffered before the Engagement
The Opinion That The Woman Or Her Guardian Is Of The Right
He Can Make Marriage Proposal To His Brings 19
Qualifications to look for in an engaged person 23
Women Who Cannot Propose Engagement 27
An Engaged Woman Cannot Be Proposed ... 34
Aiming a Prostitute 38
Young People to Be Engaged to See Each Other 44
The Provision of Caring for Women According to Islam 44
Seeing Each Other Of The Spouses To Marry 47
Man's Woman During Engagement,
How Women Will See Man, Too 49
Fiancee Strangers to Each Other by Religion 53
What Is Suffered In The Engagement 56
After the Breaking of Engagement, the City and the Status of Gifts 60
Mehrin State 63
Status of Gifts 64
SECOND PART
NIK and Acirc; PROVISIONS ON HLA 65
Dictionary Meaning of Marriage 69
Evidence of the Legitimacy of Marriage 73
Recipe of the Wedding 77
Some Expressions About Marriage 80
1) Absolute Barriers to Marriage 80
2) Relative Marriage Barriers 80
Who is Hünsâ? 83
The Marriage of Humanity 86
What Is Necessary to be Performed in the Marriage Contract 91
Wedding Mistakes 128
The Provision of Marriage (Marriage) 140
The Order of the Marriage Contract 141
Conditions of Marriage 147
In'ikad Conditions of Marriage 148
Health Conditions of Marriage 154
Qualifications Required for Marriage Witness 157
Marriage with Two Witnesses Will Not Be Considered Secret 162
The Nafâz (Validity) Conditions of Marriage 164
Necessary (Binding) Conditions of Marriage 169
Bail (Equivalence) 175
Some Equivalence Issues 187
Guardianship 191
Rank of Parents 197
Proxy in Marriage 199
Some Marriage Issues 202
Marriage to Mut 202
Limited Marriage for a Period 206
Conditional Marriage 208
Giving the Talak Right to Women 211
THIRD PART
MEHİR PAY 213
The Recipe and Wisdom of Mehrin 215
The Importance of Making City and City
Those who do not and Acirc; hereafter and Acirc; their vanity 218
Mehrin Amount 221
Evidence that Mehrin was Waged 229
Parts of Mehrin 232
The Amount of Detected City is Two Parts 233
Mehr-i Müsemmâ 233
Mehr-i Misil 238
Circumstances to be Given Mehr-i Retaliation 239
Determination of Mehri Mislin 241
Contingent City 245
Situations where a Woman Cannot Get Married 246
Marriage ends by woman's own act
The Three Places That Cannot Be Married 246
CHAPTER FOUR
TEADDÜD-Ü ZEVC and Acirc; T
(MORE THAN ONE MARRIAGE) 247
Teaddud-ü Zevcâtın (Multiple Marriage)
The Wisdom of Its Restriction and Its Legitimation 249
History of Several Marriages 258
A Man With A Few Wives
Major Duties Falling on 262
About Multiple Marriages
Responses to Objections 270
Multiple Marriage Not Considered Worldism 277
True Sufism People's Marriage and
He Does Not Avoid Marriage 283
Will not be able to comply with the rights of women
287 What Happens Should Not Get Married
Promised to Women with Fabric
Special Rewards 291
The Virtue of Jihad in the Way of God 292
The Virtue of Keeping Watch in the Way of God 295
Indexes 305
